YOUNG WILD & FREE

 I know everyone says that weekend goes by fast, but it really does. Now I know how most people feel. I guess I was spoiled with my old work schedule of having three day weekends. Speaking of work, I am now on my fourth week at the new job! So far things have been going pretty good. I've been learning a lot and my co-workers have been extremely nice and helpful. Some days have been kind of boring as I have had to sit in front of a computer for 8 hours reading through laws and regulations. But I am trying my best to take it as a champ as I know its just part of learning and not something I will be doing for the rest of my career.  I've been getting good feedback from my co-workers and my supervisor about the work I am doing and how fast I am picking up on things. By this Friday I am going to start leading my own inspections which will be a bit nerve-wrecking, but I am excited to be getting out of the office and having more responsibility.

Outside of work I have been busy, but good busy. I feel kind of dumb that I have been falling behind on silly things like laundry, making dinner, working out. I still haven't gotten into a routine yet, but with so much going on in life I'm alright with that. I have four very close friends that are moving  within these next few weeks (two out of state), so I have really have just been trying to cherish as many moments and memories with them.  I wish there were just a few more hours in the day. But I am happy to be living and enjoying each day of summer as I planned to.

SAN FRANCISCO & THE COAST

I will always be proud of the fact that I was raised in the Bay Area, even though I can't see myself living in anywhere but San Diego. Driving from San Diego to San Francisco for 4th of July weekend made me realize how blessed I am to live in the beautiful state of California.  Enjoy some pictures from my trip below.

WISHLIST: TORY BURCH

I've been slowly but surely settling into my new job. And even though I am very happy with my new position, I had to make a call to my previous employer the other day to clear some things up. Well, lets just cut to the chase....they owe me money! Seriously, I don't understand how I got a promotion and a raise back in April and it never reflected in my paychecks. Luckily, the payroll specialist said I will be receiving a check next week. And while I plan on being responsible by using the majority of the money to pay down a credit card and build-up my savings account again, I am planning on treating myself to a little gift. Even though, I've been dying to get a Louis Vuitton purse, I've been drooling over a lot of bags by Tory Burch lately. I find her stuff cute, elegant, and more affordable. I have too many black purses so I am trying to stay away from buying another one.  Here are some bags that I am considering purchasing:

Thea Triple-zip Compartment satchel

 

 Robinson Mini Double Zip Tote

 

 Marion Clutch

So what do you think of the contenders above?

CONFESSIONS: DRINKING LIKE ITS 2007

 

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I have a confession to make: I can't drink like I used to. I went out with some friends the other night and only had 3 drinks over a 3 hour period (and a hearty dinner before that) and it completely took me out the next day. Since I didn't drink a lot I didn't feel sick or wake up with a horrible headache, I just felt overly exhausted. To the point where I took naps throughout the day. I would get up to eat, tried some caffiene, and a delicious smoothie,  but then would have to sleep due to feeling so tired. Needless to say, I felt like I wasted a perfect weekend day by sleeping all freaking day! I really dislike wasting my weekend inside and being unproductive, especially when I had so many things I wanted/needed to do.

Sometimes I look back and wonder how in the hell did I drink so much in college? Of course I was a few years younger, but not that much has changed, right? In 2007 I was a freshman and moved to a party school that was 500 miles away from home. I was all about being independent (I had strict parents) and having a true college experience. So I drank, and I drank heavily. Even though I wasn't in a sorority, I attended a lot of frat parties with friends. I drank two-four nights a week, and could still function for the most part. Of course I had the occasional hangover, but I wasn't drained like I how I get now. In fact if you would have told my 2007 self that I can't have three drinks without getting buzzed and it effecting me the next day, she would probably be embarrassed.

The post graduate lifestyle of responsibilities and working 40+ hour weeks means I can no longer keep up with that lifestyle. I like to use my free time (and money) wisely instead of wasting it and getting "fucked up" all the time. But after moving away from San Diego for a while, I do see that part of the San Diego lifestyle is the acceptability of excessive social drinking. I know too many people who drink a good amount during the work week, who are obliterated during the weekend, and who have a DUI or two. Its not frowned on here, its the norm. There are too many adults who have not grown up because they are stuck in this lifestyle and a community that tells them its okay. But thats a conversion for another day. I'll stick to not going out as much and keeping my drinks limited when I do. In the meantime I am planning on being active tomorrow after all of this sleep today!

LITTLE LIFE UPDATES

Has it really been almost a month since I last updated? I apologize, life has been crazy but amazingly good these last few weeks. Do you ever just take a deep breathe and just wonder how in the world did you become so damn blessed? Because that is how I feel right now. Everything big, small, and in between in my life has just been perfect. To have gone through so much earlier this year (and last year) and to see myself reach my goals is so rewarding. It makes me not want to take anything for granted and to appreciate every little thing in my life. So what have I been up to?

1. Settled in San Diego--Yes, I got my perfect place in North Park. I can walk to everything (bars, restaurants, cafes, shopping, etc). And I really like my apartment (I even have my own bathroom). I do have a roommate and so far everything has been okay. I don't see much of him because we work completely different schedules. And rent is definitely cheaper than me living on my own which is a major plus.

2. CA coastal trip & The Bay Area--Fourth of July weekend I did a huge road trip from San Diego to San Francisco. I did a lot of touristy things in SF and then spent some time in Oakland visiting friends and family. It was perfect. Even though I love the bay area (and lived there for 17 years) I don't think I could live there again. I'm spoiled by this San Diego weather, and it feeling like winter in summer is not okay with me.

3. The New job--So far so good, and I am so happy because I really think it is going to be a good fit for me. I really have never been as excited for a new job before!

Even though I will be settling into my new life over these next few weeks, I promise no more disappearing acts.